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It's about year-old Aki, who knows she's bisexual but has so far only dated boys. All Our Pretty Songs by Sarah McCarry has a rare scene of female masturbation, showing that traditional, two-person "virginity-loss" isn't the only way that a teenage girl can gead about her own sexuality. Erens does a compelling job of making us hate him, but Bennett-Jones is the ideal narrator for this sexual tragedy.
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